Parvati Longs to Marry Shiva

One day, when Parvati was only eight years old, her father, Himavan, took
her to see Lord Shiva. From birth, Parvati had always been very spiritual.
She always wanted to know about God, so she was thrilled to see Lord Shiva.
But Lord Shiva was in a meditative consciousness and he did not pay any attention
to the little girl.<br>
After that first encounter, Parvati used to come every day to see Lord Shiva.
She would offer him fresh flowers, hoping that one day he would open his
eyes and speak to her. In the back of her mind, she had formed the idea that
this was the man she wanted to marry.<br>
The days became years and Parvati grew into a beautiful young woman. Still
Shiva remained absorbed in his eternal trance. How could anybody disturb
Shiva?s trance? Once he enters into trance, he enjoys the highest and deepest
bliss. So why should he come back?<br>
One day, Parvati confided to her father, ?I really want to marry Lord Shiva.
He is meditating and meditating. How I wish that I could also meditate like
Himavan was very sad that Shiva was not paying any attention to his beautiful
daughter, who was so spiritual in every way. He decided to play a trick on
Shiva: he invoked the god of love to disturb Shiva?s meditation. The name
of this particular god was Madana. Madana had a bow and some arrows that
were made of flowers. He used to shoot these arrows at his victims and then
they would be filled with feelings of emotional love.<br>
At Himavan?s request, Madana aimed his arrows at Lord Shiva and the arrows
fell as flowers at Shiva?s feet. Suddenly, Shiva opened his third eye and
caught sight of the god of love standing with his bow in his hands. Shiva
immediately burned this unfortunate god to ashes because he had disturbed
Shiva?s meditation.<br>
Meanwhile, Parvati was standing nearby with a most beautiful garland in her
hands, but Lord Shiva did not pay any attention to her. It was as if she
did not even exist. He simply closed his eyes again and went into trance.<br>
Parvati?s parents had witnessed the whole scene and they were furious with
Lord Shiva. They felt that he had insulted their dearest daughter. ?You cannot
marry him, Parvati,? they said. ?This Shiva has been insulting you for so
many years now. You must not waste your time on him any longer.?<br>
But Parvati would not budge. ?I am going to stay here,? she declared. ?From
now on, I shall eat only leaves, wet leaves.? With heavy hearts, Parvati?s
parents returned home without their daughter.<br>
For several years, Parvati stayed near Shiva, eating only wet leaves. Then
she started eating only dry leaves. After a few more years, she gave up eating
leaves altogether. When she gave up eating leaves, her name became Aparna,
which means ?one who does not eat even a leaf.? Parvati became the goddess
Aparna at that time because of her extreme tapasya, or spiritual discipline.<br>
As time passed, Parvati went one step further. She stopped drinking water.
She was living on nothing but air. Himavan saw that his daughter was becoming
very weak. He knew that it was only a matter of time before she would die.
So Himavan went to Lord Shiva and said, ?Can you not see what you are doing
to my daughter? All her life, she has wanted only one thing, and that is
to marry you. But you have never even looked at her. If you are determined
not to marry her, at least look at her. Otherwise, she will surely die.?<br>
Shiva condescended to look at Parvati, but to himself he said, ?Let me test
her one last time before I marry her.? Poor Parvati had endured so many tests
and still Shiva wanted to test her love and devotion. He took the form of
an ordinary man and approached her. ?You are such a beautiful girl,? he said.
?Why are you wasting your time here? I have heard that you want to marry
Shiva, but what kind of man is he? He spends all his time in the cremation
ground in the company of his ghost-friends. The garland around his neck is
made of skulls. How can you marry someone as frightening as Shiva? Forget
about him! Marry a normal man, like me.?<br>
Parvati?s eyes burned. ?What you are saying is untrue. Go away from here
and leave me alone! I know who Shiva is. Do not throw your doubts and suspicions
into me. I will never marry you, never! I will marry only my Lord Shiva.
If you do not leave me alone this instant, I shall curse you!?<br>
At that moment, Shiva assumed his true form once more. Parvati was so moved
and overwhelmed to see him standing before her. Shiva said to her, ?Any boon
that you want, I shall give you.?<br>
?You do not know by this time what boon I want?? asked Parvati. ?I want only
to marry you.?<br>
?Granted,? said Shiva.<br>
After Shiva and Parvati were married, Parvati came to know that she had been
Shiva?s wife in her previous incarnation. Her name then was Sati and she
immolated herself because her father, Daksha, insulted Shiva. But that is
another story!<br>
Sri Chinmoy&nbsp;

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